Omg Debbie, how distressing for you! I can't beleive it and you've upset me too! I can't beleive the school didn't say anyhting to you about all this - that's disgusting, they are supposed to tell you even if they suspect it let alone all ready dealing with it! I too would have to say something to the mother - if she doesn't know it's happening, she won't be able to deal with it. Good luck hun, big huggle from me for you and melissa and keep us posted.