bad realtionship | | yeah ive been stuck in a realtionship for 12 years. The first 5 years or so i wanted to be with him even though he treated me like shit. After having the son he always wanted but ignores because he is a mummy's boy so he says i have been trying to finish it with him. he treats me like shit i do everything around the house the kids are totally left for me to take care of even the bloody dogs he wanted are left for me to look after. i have asked him to move out but he keeps saying he needs to save up first for a car and deposit for a flat. All the while living off me i pay all the bills pay for all shopping, everything for the kids (well i always have) now i carnt seem to get rid of him i know im too soft and i dont want to hurt him and i feel sorry for him as im making him leave his kids (not that he did anything with them before) i just dont know how to make him see i no longer want a realtionship with him there is nothing there anymore. what can i do ? And i dont want anyone else i just want to be on my own with my kids im sick of men lol lol |