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Old 03-11-2007, 11:22 AM
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I DONT THINK THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG IN TRYING AGAIN IF YOU STILL ARE IN LOVE ,I SPLIT WITH MY HAUSBAND 3YEARS AGO FOR 9 MONTHS AFTER HE HIT ME BUT AFTER A MONTH APART WE REALISED WE BOTH STILL WANTED TO BE TOGETHER SO WE STARTED AGAIN ,WE WENT ON DATES AND TALKED THINGS THROUGH ABOUT WHAT WENT WRONG AND WHY THEY HAPPENED ,IT REALLY HELPED AND WE GOT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER , WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AND WE MARRIED. IM NOT SAYING ALL RELATIONSHIP WORK OUT THAT WAY BUT IF YOU DO STILL LOVE HIM AND ARE BOTH WILLING TO SORT OUT YOUR PROBLEMS THAN WHY NOT ,BY THE SOUNDS OF OHSOFAIRS STORY IT WAS MORE VERBAL ABUSE ,IM NOT SAYING THAT MAKES IT OK IM NOT ,NO FORM OF ABUSE IS OK BUT I KNOW THAT WHEN THINGS GET HARD ARGUEMENTS CAN GET REALLY HEATED AND YOU SAY THINGS YOU DONT ALWAYS MEAN. IF YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN BOTH SORT THIS OUT AND TRY AGAIN AND IT WILL WORK AND YOU'LL BOTH BE HAPPIER THAN GO FOR IT ,MAYBE DO WHAT I DID AND GO OUT A FEW TIMES LIKE GOING ON YOUR FIRST DATE AND TRY TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AGAIN THAT MAY HELP IT HELPED ME .
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