to all thoose of you trying for a baby be it a first or fifth. i have had alot of friends have problems trying to conceive and i will give you one example! my friend gemma had been with her partner 6 years when they decided to try. it wasn't easy she first fell pregnant after 5 months and miscarried. devastating. she suffered another 4 miscarrages. and then was in hospital as she is a diabetic and they did a test just in case and she was pregnant. she was only 4 weeks so didn't get too excited! her beautiful daughter is now coming up for three. sadly her and partner split. she met somebody else and after 2 months of not trying fell pregnant. her second daughter is now 7 months.
my point is however desperate you are these things will happen when the time is right. when your body is ready i suppose. gemma used to obsess about it and then after the last miscarrige she decided to forget for a while and withen a few months she fell pregnant.
another example i was with my ex 4 years after 6 months we stopped using protection and nothing came about. we split i was seeing someone else fell pregnant although saly miscarried and then i met john and we now have jessica. but my ex and his new partner are expecting!
it's all down to when you body is ready and fate! things will happen when the time is right! and try i know it's hard but try to put it to the back of your mind. concentrate on what you have got now and what you are doing now. it will all feel so much better when it comes as a suprise.
good luck to you all!xxx
