Hil. I am still with someone who hits me. He says I am paranoid and if I wasn't like that everything would be alright. He blames me for EVERYTHING!! he's incredibly tight with money infact he's a parasite and I havent got the money but he's got loads. He keeps all that secret because"it's none of my business", he bad mouths me to his family and friends, and in public he humiliates me by shouting; he blows up over the slightest thing and shouts, calling me names such as bitch, stupid cow, moronic twat,nerd,slag, weirdo ,psycho,tells me I am like a psychiatric patient etc etc and then expects complete trust from me! I find him impossible to trust because of what I get - or don't get -from him. I've never worried about my age too much but when i became 40 I was fed up as I feel I havent acheived some things I really want to. So I wanted to have a few friends to meet at a nice pub for a buffet. I was more than happy to pay as I just wanted a nice time. he sai "if you think I'm F****** paying for that you've got another thing coming" - Yh he really loves me doesn't he
whenever we've stayed at mum and dads he has never so much as taken a contribution even tho he had free bed and board. As far as the physical stuff goes - he's headbutted me 3 times, strangled me 3 times, kicked me, pushed me to the floor. thumped me many times, slammed a car door on my back when I was trying to talk to him,thrown hot tea in my face,shakes me, that's just some of it. If anyone calls you names or hits you GET OUT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE OR YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF TIED TO HIM FOR MUCH TOO LONG!