[jennyspug]

Originally Posted by CoNFuSeD24

I think the best thing you can do for her is be there for her and help her out best ya can. My dad used to hit my mum when I was younger but that was due to him drinking. he never hit my or my brother... only my mum. Once he stoped drinking he went alright. My mum took my dad to court but he didnt show. Its always easy to say "Leave him you dont need him." But sometimes love is blinding. Like maybe she wants to leave him but she wont because she loves him so much or she loves him so much she belived he will change. I hope I may of helped you in some way. Sorry if I havent. Good luck. Let us know how she is going.

thanks hun, it has helped a bit. i went to see her today as she text me to say shes really low. the good news is that she plucked up the courage to tell him hes got to leave, and he said yes, hes going in two weeks after hes been paid.
trouble is now shes scared of being alone with two kids, the younger is really sicky bless him. she really cheared up while i was there so ive told her we will meet up every week for a chat. hope it helps!!