oh hun. that's what we are all here for. when i found out i was expecting i was 19 and had only been with bf for 3 months. he didn't want kids and i had dreams i wanted to fufill. i had just applied to join the ta army to train to become a nurse. anyway we thought about abortion but i just couldn't my heart and my head was telling me to have the baby. my partner didn't want me to ful stop. but i went ahead anyway and it was the best thing i have ever done.
anyway babe you have to take some serious time out to think about what is right for you and ultimatly what is right for this child. obviously it is to late to consider abortion but i think adoption is something that you have to be a hundred percent sure on. you have still got 4 months to decide but hun i think for what you have said you want this baby! there is lots of help and support out there for you sweetie. so don't be thinking your alone. you will have support of family friends the health visitors are fantastic.
but your mothers instinct will have already kicked in the decision will come to through that. we are always here to talk!
