reading your story was like taking a step back in time.i was with my now ex husband for 10 years constant physicall and mental abuse.he thought my place was in the kitchen and bedroom.i lost all my self-confidence and put on loads of weight i was nearly 20 stone but even then he would accuse me of sleeping around,even though i never left the house.i had no friends my family hardly saw me in fact i think my local hospital saw more of me than my parents did.i decided to end the relationship when i met a lovely man who showed me how a woman should be treated.we were together for a couple months before i had the courage to tell my ex.i am still with the man that changed my life i have lost loads of weight had 2 beautiful children and got married,the only good thing that came out of my abusive relationship was my 3 kids.my story had a good ending but so many dont my advice to anyone is GET OUT and be strong i know its hard but you will feel like a better person and you will find someone who will love you not abuse you.
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