hi hun sorry to hear your feeling this way. but charley's right you have to do whats best for your children & yourself. it may be hard but sometimes we have to make difficult descions in life...if it were me i would leave & start a new life for myself & my children. as for him going on about custady etc unless you are a unfit mother i'm sure it wouldn't come to him having control of the children for one thing he's ill.
as for the counciling without sounding rude i personally don't think it works it's just a way of ammitting that the relationship is over if that makes sense.
good luck hun & remember we are all here for you anytime x
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