I met my partner in Sept 06. Moved in a couple of months later and things where great. He has split from his ex-wife a few months before, and she had his 2 kids and a new partner. So all was good, u'd think. Anyways, a few months after moving in (honeymoon period) she phones my OH and tells him her OH has been arrested and she found out he was a peadofile (sp) The ex-wifes partner was jailed and had to sign a sex offenders register. He was living with my ex's kids for a year before anyone found out....
So after 9 months of all the shit, they finally came to live with us. My life felt like it went down the pan tbh. I was 19, with 3 kids at home and only one of them was mine. I never wanted kids (found out was pregnant with Maddy at 5months) and then when I had her, I didn't want any more. His 2 kids are a handful. The youngest is 3 and the nursery he goes to had to cut down the time he went to school because he would distroy the playroom and hit other kids. He even stabbed a little girl in the arm and she had to have 10 stitches!!! :O
I didn't get along with them as soon as I met them, and to be pefectly honest I didn't really want them in my life. I had a great life, friends family and Maddy. And of corse my OH.
Since the time we found out about the bloke being a peadofile, I haven't heard anything else. My OH is obsessed with the whole situation. We even lay in bed about to have sex, and he is talking about them. I hate it so much. In the past 6 months, I can probably count on one hand the amount of times we have got 'intimate'. Sad eh. And I'm only 20.
I feel like saying to him 'Me or the kids' but I know its wrong to put him in that situation, so I'm leaving him.
I'm moving to my mums in Australia, and me and Maddy are going to start a new life. It's a shame because he is The One, I know it. Just cant accept his kids.
Am I mad to not being able to accept them? Is it wrong? Has anyone else been through this?
It must be horrible for him to have his girlfriend not wanting his children. I'd hate him to be like that towards my child.
I know I've gone on. I'll stop now
