[c.a.cullum]

wow hun..all that and just 20! i think u r doing the right thing!! u do not want to stay somewhere where u r unhappy and also as u said u cant ask ur OH to make that decision so as u have..u had to!! its such a shame things cudnt have worked out but u r young and able to make a fresh start and enjoy life.. and ur main responsibility is maddie and urself!! :-) i hope everything goes smoothly for u... and TBH i think u r better off away from the mother and her B/F.... its disgusting that she has made that decision and i cud neva understand anything like that!!!
take care!! :-)