[melanie]

hi,im melanie 23 from ireland,mum to morgan 21 months.i can only imagine how u are feeling,it must be so difficult for you.but first and formost i do not think of u as a slut,these things happen every where. i find it hard to give my opinion on this because there are a lot of pro,s and con,s to both out comes. if u decide to have an abortion you must be 100% sure it is what u want.and if u do you can go back to the way your life used to be.if u go ahead and have ur baby you will have to take a huge responsability to care for your baby.you wont be caring just for yourself anymore.it wont all be roses either,u will have dirty nappies,sleepless nights and so on,but the reward for this is massive!you will experiance the joys of motherhood also,this feeling is amazing and in my opinion the best feeling in the world,and you can only acheive this feeling by being a mum.i do hope whatever it is you choose to do,you will be 100% happy.good luck hun.and welcome to mums room.xx