[happyhappylady]

It's really hard to say what's right for you in your situation - all I can say is what I would do, which would be to ask him what his feelings are for you and also your baby. if he is vague, or says he doesn't know, remind him he has a moral and financial responsibility (when he is earning) for the baby - how would he feel if his dad wasn't interested? then tell him to be in touch to arrange contact, walk away and let him make the next move. maybe talking to your or his parents could help, but don't take any rubbish. good luck!