[Lynne]

I think when the time comes you don't have time to think about it and you just get on with it. I think things can be made worse if you think about it too much. The best thing to do is like others have said is to relax. I think as your pregnancy progresses and you become more familiar with what will happen etc you will feel more comfortable. At the moment you are probably scared of the unknown and what to expect.

You really need to have a chat with your midwife as she should be a great help. If she is no use and just laughs, see if you can change. You need to be encouraged and given good advice not laughed at!

Hope all goes well x