[melanie]

Originally Posted by stacy_elise

i know this mite sound harsh but the only way i think hat tjis can work is jus doing it leaving him to cry till he realises ure not going to giv him what he wants n he will go bk to sleep in his own room. i had to do this ith my daughter not she didnt understand that bottles were going jus she didnt want to listen, so when she woke 4 a bottle i just sad mummy hasnt got no bottles go bk to slepp at 1st took maybe an hour to settle her and i was shattered constantly but within a week she got the message and went to sleep bout a month later i done the same with moving her into own bedroom, if she woke i would lay her bk down say time for sleep now. etc etc got all this from super nanny and amazingly it works lasted bout 5 days with that 1 and she stayed in own room and slept through i was amazed.
i know its different with all kids but think big part lays on persiverence of parent too. i didnt think i could do it felt so nasty wen she cied but stick at it. amazing results

oh god though! the thoughts of the tiredness! im already wrecked the whole time as it is!lol but i think it may be the only sollution!