View Single Post
  #1  
Old 06-26-2008, 10:00 PM
happyhappylady http://www.mums-room.co.uk/forum/images/mothers/statusicon/user_offline.gif
Senior Member
Chatter Box
 

Join Date: May 2008
Location: east lancashire
Posts: 135
Default Don't know whether to try for 4th baby


How do you decide whether or not to have another baby? i have 2 to my ex and a baby to my new partner. I'm worried that my baby could feel left out when the older 2 see their dad. also because I was previously in an abusive relationsip I've only really enjoyed this baby, and I would like to have another to enjoy as it feels like making up for the miserable time I had after the other 2, and basically I would just like to have another one! problem is my parter is 64(!) (my baby was a surprise!), I am going through a divorce, we're not loaded and having another doesn't seem very practical. I want to have a complete career change after I've completed my family, so if I have another one it needs to be now before I re-train. Should I go with my heart or my head

Reply With Quote