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It is hard. Your whole life changes because of this little baby, even before it arrives. He might be anxious about it, you never know. He's said he just needs a few days to have a breather, he doesn't want to break up with you. At least you know where he is.

I'm sure you'll make up with him in due course but the pregnancy and arrival of a new baby is just as emotional, hard, surreal whatever for the father as it is for the mother.

As for the cheating thing, I got this a lot and you just have to let it go over your head. His head will be all over the place at the mo (hense the breather) and will just be throwing anything at you. Honestly, I think if he thought you were actually cheating he'd have packed his things and went. Since you haven't cheated, you have nothing to worry about!