I have 3, but would love no 4 lol

melessa · #1 01-29-2007, 01:17 PM

I have 2 boys aged 11 and 5, 1 girl aged 8, I would love to have another but my partner doesnt, he hasnt got any and doesnt intend having any, i got other ideas lol (I wish)

becky · #2 01-29-2007, 01:51 PM

ohh no lol, tell him ur on the pill, but miss it for a few weeks

lol

Hope you do manage one way or another to have another, 4 is a lovely number with kiddies, expecially 2 girls and 2 boys

melessa · #3 01-30-2007, 10:32 AM

i am on the pill becky, a mate has already suggested missing it for a few weeks and then say the pill failed, it does happen (the pill failing that is lol), but i think he'd hit the roof if he found out i done that, but there again, the pill isnt 100% safe is it? lol

becky · #4 01-30-2007, 10:38 AM

no its not 1005 safe lol....... could give it a try

But......... could you live with knowing you lied to him? im a terrible lier, carnt lie to save my life lol, so i couldent do it! lol

melessa · #5 01-30-2007, 10:57 AM

i'm not a very good liar myself, so i dont think i'll get away with it, having a baby takes 2, so i would only come of the pill if he definately wanted one, it wouldnt be fair to trap him like that

becky · #6 01-30-2007, 11:48 AM

na, thats right, theres a reason he dont want a baby, and by u trapping him, it might scare him and you might loose him, its happened to many in the past! Just try and convince him

parisry · #7 02-05-2007, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by melessa

I have 2 boys aged 11 and 5, 1 girl aged 8, I would love to have another but my partner doesnt, he hasnt got any and doesnt intend having any, i got other ideas lol (I wish)

hi im new here, ive got three and want another. theres more than one way to get what you want. make him think its his idea. be subtle and you will win him round after all what man wont back down in the end. lol

melessa · #8 03-05-2007, 06:43 PM

I've tried making him think its his idea, one male mate of mine told me to keep on and on and eventually he'll back down cos men always do, like you said, but he aint budging :'(

melessa · #9 08-19-2007, 09:35 PM

ok, after the last couple of weeks off school with my 3, i dont want that no 4 lol

amy1990 · #10 10-08-2007, 12:36 AM

i have Tyler who is 1 and Summer and Grace who are 3 months old x