toddler tantrums

atlantis · #1 06-16-2007, 02:37 PM

anyone having trouble with todler tantrums and behavior? if so would love to hear from u need advise badly tearing my hair out with a four yearold and a 3 yearold help! help! help! need some sanity! are any of u on msn? if so add me to yours love to chat with u on there take care then talk to u soon x

c.a.cullum · #2 06-16-2007, 02:40 PM

i have a 3year old and one coming up to 2!! so im also experiencing tantrums!! how i cope with them is naughty step and taking away something they r either plaing with or absolutelly adore!!! have to b consistent coz then that way they kno u mean it and each tantrum wil get less and easier to handle!!

atlantis · #3 06-16-2007, 02:48 PM

i know what u are saying i do that all the time taking toys away just has no effect on them at all drives me mad seems to make them worse,they are both at an age they just seem to wind each other up all the time cant do anything with them without arguing fighting screeming ect need i say more? heathvisitor keeps saying wont last for ever! seems like it too me lol u on msn? nice to hear from u angie x

c.a.cullum · #4 06-16-2007, 02:51 PM

oh yes i have the winding each other up too!!! sometimes just wish u cud push the mute button..or pause!! hehe im sure it will pass but it does also lasts a long time!!!

i think just as long as u have some control thats all u can do coz no matter how stern u r they wil always wind each other up etc...just as long as wen u really do mean it they do listen!! :smile: