bad births

louisel · #1 03-16-2008, 06:06 PM

well where do i start well ben was a heavy baby infact he was 10lb 3 oz, well as you can imagine it wasnt an easy birth i had to have a forceps delvirey i tore quite badly wasnt nice. after the birth i was in a wheel chair for 3 days.
ouch

Charlie_x · #2 03-16-2008, 07:39 PM

im really agaisnt forceps and suction cups for when i have my little one has my uncle died of cancer and the cancer was where the forceps had been they had left marks or something

louisel · #3 03-16-2008, 09:17 PM

sorry to say hun somtimes theres no choice in the matter. if it helps the baby then iam all for it. in my case there was no choice it wasnt through laziness coz i would have pushed all night if i was allowed it wasnt safe for my baby. plus the size of him there was no way he was going to get out of there himself

pinky29 · #4 03-16-2008, 10:52 PM

i had a c section with ben as we both nearly died but my sil had the forceps on her on her birthday 15 years ago nearly & the puntured her bladder.

c.a.cullum · #5 03-17-2008, 03:45 PM

birth can b a terrible experience or the best of ur life!! and we really dont have a choice!!

i almost had to have an instrumental birth wit william.. coz he was laying the wrong way and i'd been in labour 39hrs and been pushing for over 2hrs.. but luckily wen the dr came in to get things going she managed to turn him by pushing on my belly.. and wham bam 2mins later.. he was out!! :-)