aw hun how tragic

im sorry to hear you lost your brother,my nephew was very aggressive but he seemed to grow out of it,but it seems to be appearing again,he was excluded from school yesterday after having to be restained and telling a teacher to F**k off,Girls generally are not as badly affected,we have problems with obsessions and routines,very literal,doesnt get sarcasm or idioisms,does your SIL get much help with your niece?