Do I have MUG across me head !!!

[emerald-babe31]

Cos I really think I do...

every weekend I seem to be havin me nephew here cos his dad works... I mean I dont mind havin him here but lately me ex sister has been askin me to keep her two girls as well on a friday or sat nite and daft woman tht i am I agreed to take them tonite even tho Ive got Brandon here since 11.30am and aint sure wot time he is goin back

My step mum has told brandon dad my bro sean tht he needs to sort out his work hours cos it aint fair on Brandon he aint gettin the time to see him cos when sean comes home it is time for bed...

I am def not keeping the two girls ne more it aint on... I am so angry at me self for sayin yes so maybe I am a mug !!!!

[clare bear]

you gotta start saying no sis, they will walk all over you if you let them

[pinky29]

mmmmm this sounds very famiular of when my brother died & i was having his kids over every weekend you have to stop it i have now got it down to once a month!

[emerald-babe31]

:@:@:@ well after all tht I never had the nieces after all grrr!!!

I text to ask her to bring milk and she said I was only keepin the older one the other was stayin with someone else ... tht was fine by me...

I get a txt again then after 7.30pm sayin did I have shantell yet to which I replied NO!!!

well... I txt her after 8pm askin where Shantell was and the answer was
" oo sori doll she aint comin now either"


I was ffing fumin so there is no way I will be keepin her kids ne more she is soo unreliable and it aint on

[shelley]

You've got to make a stand, & put a end to it all. The more you help the more you'll be walked all over as you're finding out now. Just tell them no after all they never return the favour for you to have a break from the girls

[carmen_richards]

sounds like you are being put up on because you are a caring loving person. In my own experience the more caring you are the more people take advantage of you

[ILoveToCount,Ahh,Ahh!]

I second what Carmen said...Don't let people walk over you hun - it's not fair on you at all xx