he makes me so mad

kerrib · #1 08-01-2007, 02:44 PM

my other half really upset me last nite had a bit of a row about me and little man going to the zoo with my mum nxt week. my mum doesnt drive and neither do i so we are going by coach. little man we sit on my lap i know it anit the best way but wont else can i do. his only 15 weeks old so cant sit on his own and the coaches seats dont have the right belts for his car seat. Any chris said me and jake cant go because of this as it anit safe. i would understand but its ok for him to sit on my lap when we go places in the fire engine chris has and its ok for him to drive over the speed limit with little man in the car and sometimes when he has been on my lap in the fire engine.
was really looking forward to going as i dont get out much and it better for little man to be out for the day then to spend another stuck indoors and my mum has already paid for it.

then after the row chris went over to his work (the fire st) while his on leave so it anit like he has to go over there and he was there for two hours. once again leaving me to do everything cook dinner and look after a crying baby at the same time

sorry everyone just had to get that out sometimes it helps

becky · #2 08-01-2007, 03:05 PM

ohh dear hun, that dont sound too nice ! its well unfair. have you not got a harness so you could strap him to you and put your seat belt around u both ? that would be a idear!!

xx

kerrib · #3 08-01-2007, 03:11 PM

yeah that is what i was going to doing. the nite stared off good but ended with me going to bed early and him sitting up till late. neither mind today is a new day

clare bear · #4 08-01-2007, 03:19 PM

sorry to hear about that chic. i would just go. you wont be the only one on the coach with a little one im sure. dont he realise you need to get out too. hope it all gets sorted.

kerrib · #5 08-01-2007, 03:23 PM

that is want i told him. but he dont get it thinks i should be loving being at home everyday. dont get me wrong i love being with jake but dont want to be in the house everyday.

becky · #6 08-01-2007, 03:27 PM

must be terrible, it would send me potty if i was in the house all day!!

hope it works out ok for you xx

kerrib · #7 08-01-2007, 03:37 PM

i will try speak to him tonite and let you know what happens

clare bear · #8 08-01-2007, 09:00 PM

good luck hun just tell him u are fed up of being indoors 24/7

c.a.cullum · #9 08-03-2007, 09:46 AM

u got everything sorted hun!? bloody men!!! they just dont realise how awful it is being stuck in wit nowhere to go!!!!

they get to go to work and altho that doesnt seem fun its at least getting them out of the house and some time for them to b themselves!! whereas us mummies r always mummies whether we'r at home or out!!!

splitwidow · #10 08-03-2007, 10:17 AM

I spend alot of time at home 24/7 i understand what you mean, so when the chance of a trip comes up i grab it with both hands, sometimes he gets the mardies on but i just say, i'm in all the time i need a breake, he moans a bit and i just say back to him, your either at work or playing with your Old VWs, or at you friends helping them with there's,

You need to tell him how you feel, put your foot down, i have,,

Hope alls well,