I've got a stalker lol

[shelley]

Ok opinions please ladies... A woman who goes up the school is driving me nuts. She's harmless enough but just lately it's like she's suffocating me. She's 26 & we went to the same primary school she was in my sisters year & her sister was in my year. She has a daughter who is at nursery with Leah, just lately when i collect Leah she waits for me with her daughter, also called Leah. If i sneak out from nursery she runs down the road after me. My daughter is very head strong & old headed for 3 years old, however this grils daughter is very babyish in comparision. My Leah has gone into nursery by herself for at least 3 months, after the half term break it was said for the other children to go in by themselves too. Some of the kids aren't keen & play up to go in, including girls daughter Leah, if her daughter plays up she takes her in. Unfortunately My Leah is trying to copy her ways. The other Leah also calls me Auntie Shell!! I have spoke to teacher at nursery & she says my Leah & other Leah don't have anything to do with each other at nursery, yet woamn tells me her daughter is mad about mine!! When the other Leah isn't at nursery my Leah is fine. this woman is also struck on Leah saying how lovely she is etc.
I think she might be a bit lonely & decided to latch on to me, but i'm gonna have to say something, i feel as though i can't move without her being behind me or watching my every move. She is affecting me & her & herdaughters actions are having a affect on Leah too. I feel terrible about the thought i might upset her but can't carry on.

[louisel]

aww thats a shame for the women its obvious she is lonely and trying to make friends maybe you should explain how you are feeling if its upsepting you, or then you can try and understand and be privliged that she has taken such intrest in you,

[krazykezz]

i agree with louisel but be cautious of her motives...sounds very strange to behave that way, be careful for urs and ur daughters sake, don't want to scare u or anything but just be careful ok

[melanie]

im sorry if i offend you,but dont you think your being a bit harsh?why not give the girl a chance,find out if you have any of the same interests or maybe go for a coffee with her...you never know,you might actually like her!and by the sound of it her daughter just wants to be freinds with yours and may be a bit shy in school with her.either way hope all works out for ya chick!!x

[shelley]

Well like i've said i've known her since primary school & tried being friendly with her like you suggested melanie which what has got me into situation i'm in lol. I've been & spoken to staff at nursery & the girls don't have anything to do with each other while they are in nursery. I have avoided her as much as i can & luckily not been too bad on morning before nursery but she's still lurking around after nursery but avoid her as much as i can. She has tagged on to a close friend of mine this morning who has text me & said about her being a bit odd & this was said without her knowing what my feelings are. If she doesn't back up a bit i'm going to have to bite the bullet & say something beacuse it's driving me mad, i actually fret about seeing her. I'm a really friendly girl honestly but she just driving me mad, half of me wishes i wasn't so friendly lol. The teachers at nursery also said about me being friendly & easy to approach is my downfall at the minute hehe

[melanie]

i know being freindly can be a curse at times,i have often had trouble because of it myself!!if there is no way u can stand her then i guess your doing the right thing.xx

[pinky29]

well firstly hun like i said to you on the phone i'd have it out with her you are the most friendliest & kindest person that i know & like you said if the girls have nothing to do with each other at nursery & leah is getting upset about this girl then you need to speak to her & don't let anyone make you feel as if you are being harsh or you are not a friendly person as i know that you are & will do anything for anyone. hope it works out hun x

[krazykezz]

hope it works out hun x