the making of a bully

[sassysan]

im having to find a new toddler group for ashley as there is a girl there who is a little bitch with my ashley. this girl has thrown things at her, bit her. yesterday was the final straw, i asked one of the mums to keep an eye on ashley cuz i needed the loo. anyway i come back and see that this same girl has ashley pinned in the corner and was hitting her in the back of the head!!!!! i was furious! the mother of the girl was the one i asked to mind ashley while i went to the toilet!!! and all she said was "oh i know shes a little bitch" i was absolutely mad at this point( it doesnt help that its the wrong time of the month to start on me) i said back " keep your little bitch away from my daughter" excuse the constant swearing, its just as upsetting for me as it is ashley cuz no parent wants to see their child getting hurt do they?

[rileysmam]

no u dont have to let ur daughter get bullied by other ppls kids especially when they dont tell them off i stopped taking riley to a playgroup for a similar reason for a start no1 seen their kids hitting other but when urs hit them bk they soon seen it was fed up of the dirty looks and then to top it al of we were sat for song time at the end and they ahd this teddy and every1 had held it exept riley and this kid had it and riley took it off him and he was dragging it off riley and polly 1 of the sure start girls took it off this kid and gave it to riley and when she started telling the story the kids mam snatched it out of rileys hands and give it bk to her own son so i got up and went and never went bk and now hes only started at rileys nursery and his mams a right bitch, im glad u said something to her might make her think twice

[sassysan]

it really is upsetting isnt it? im taking her away from that place, its not fair for your child to think its not safe

[rileysmam]

i dont blame you i never went again dont see why my son should get a whack and not hit them bk or put up with other kids mothers being horrible to him i was dying to punch her but there was lots of kid there

[sassysan]

yeah me too. i was willing for ashley to smack her back!

[shell]

i don't tka e Leah to toddlers as she doesn't like it that much. Our local one is run by Surestart. The problem is always parnets that don't watch & correct their childrens behaviour. If that had been me i'd have done the same & probably given her a few home truths!!

[sassysan]

a mum from the same place has asked me to come to her little girls birthday party with ashley, i said yes. my only problem is that shes holding it in the same place as we all go for toddler group. i really didnt want to take ashley back there because of that little bitch that goes there, but at the same time, its not fair that i should keep ashley from all the fun of a birthday party. what would you do. need advice

[pinkydinkydo]

don't let another child spoil your littles ones fun go if the little girl starts then ask the mother if she could have a word with the child ...well actually if i'm being honest i'd say to the mother can you keep your daughter under control you might need a row to get things sorted.

[rileysmam]

no take her sassy dont let that little horror ruin your little girls fun its not fair on her