im with u debi... i think each to their own.. but also i do agree with u to heidi... i think once is an accident, twice is just bloody stupid.. i dint plan my daughter amy, i accidentally fell.. and was about to start uni but i had already had one accident and i promised myself on that day that i wud neva do it again!!! and i am completely happy and secure with all the decisions i have made!!! wudnt change any part of it!!! like i said b4... it depends on the individuals and on their personal circumstances!!!
