PLEASE HELP..

[Ann-Marie]

Hiya everyone
please can any of yous help me with something.
I have a 5 month old and my mam keeps trying to take over and pick her up when i tell her not to and things and i cant handle it anymore.
I told her this morning that she is making her spolit cos when you put her down she does nothing but screaming until you pick her back up.
It hard to say to her because she always starts arguing with me and its really getting me down.
Sorry but i needed to get it out
As any one got any advice how should say something
Thanks everyone
Ann-Marie
xx

[chantellesmummy]

i am also going through it with my mum so i know how it feels, its really hard, i keep tellen my mum and she is now fanaily listnening to me, chantelle is 1 nxt month and my mum has just started to listern to me now, just bare with it and she will take notice aventually

[Ann-Marie]

Originally Posted by chantellesmummy

i am also going through it with my mum so i know how it feels, its really hard, i keep tellen my mum and she is now fanaily listnening to me, chantelle is 1 nxt month and my mum has just started to listern to me now, just bare with it and she will take notice aventually

I hope she does eventually listen because its doing my head in with it.
When i did say something this morning she was like a raving lunatic. There is no need in her she is my daughter not hers the sooner she gets that in too her head the better
aarrghhh!!! do you know when you just want to scream!!!!
Sorry for going on
xx

[clare bear]

i aint got any kids chic but your mum needs to be told about it,she is gonna make your life hell.just tell her that its making you feel that she thinks your not coping and it upsets you. im sure she will understand.

[clare bear]

i aint got any kids chic but your mum needs to be told about it,she is gonna make your life hell.just tell her that its making you feel that she thinks your not coping and it upsets you. im sure she will understand.

[emerald-babe31]

Hi Annmarie ...

Sori to hear ur mum dont seem to be listenin to u.. thts the way all mums are no matter wot cos they think they know wot is best...

Just tell ur mum u r glad she is there to help u but u need to discover things with the little one for urself and connect a bond with her.. if ur mum keeps pickin her up she wont get tht and will think she is her mum not her gran.. Kids always want picked up at the most stupid of times.. and I guess ur mum is lovin just liftin her ect..

Good luck tho

I hope she listens to u hun xoxox

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

I have the same problem with my mother in law, I would say say thanks for your help and you need to settle her yourself and do it for yourself, Hope she will listern to you x