quite a wierd one really..

[Charlie_x]

Well i was wonder when the time//has come how did//how would you disscuss the birds and bees topic with your kids! (if no1 gets what i mean me means the making of babies and stuff!)

I know it sounds wierd but its like when me n ron talk about it how we'd do it to our kids hes like ill do it if its a boy and you can do it if its girl cuz obvs it wud be embrassing for a boy if its mum starts talking to him about sex...

Also what age do you think is the right time to disscuss this also the same for other topics like drugs//death etc


Cheers Hunsx

[Charlie_x]

P.s im sorry if this is in the wrong section!

[c.a.cullum]

oh my goodness really not gonna think bout that for a few more years!! hehe too scary!! lol

[Charlie_x]

see thats what i mean lol its not as easy done as in eastenders is it lol!! whenever my stepdad got drunk hed ramble on about it lol

[c.a.cullum]

i dont think my parents eva sat us down!! i think we'r quite an open family so it just gets thrown about in everyday conversations!! does that mak sense!!

[Charlie_x]

oh yea obvs i cud tlk to it miore about it to my mum then my dad! so what do u think the right age is for it?

[pinky29]

well we have started but not in that sense ben is 3 years old & is aware of parts of body so we make him comftable he came in the room one day & asked if i had a willy i said no darling mummy has a lady garden daddy & you have a willy etc blah blah but he's having the chop as soon as he's old enough for girlfriends lol

[clare bear]

at the end of the day id cross that path when you actually have a child. i wouldnt even think about it now let alone ask for advise.

[Charlie_x]

Originally Posted by pinky29

well we have started but not in that sense ben is 3 years old & is aware of parts of body so we make him comftable he came in the room one day & asked if i had a willy i said no darling mummy has a lady garden daddy & you have a willy etc blah blah but he's having the chop as soon as he's old enough for girlfriends lol

Lmao i laughed at that bless it reminds me of a joke i know but i cant remember it all bless him, id like to think if my child asked me what bits were and that i could answer without getting embrassed.

Originally Posted by clare bear

at the end of the day id cross that path when you actually have a child. i wouldnt even think about it now let alone ask for advise.l

My reason for asking was just that me and ron had been talking about it and i just wondered what everyone else felt about it, i wasnt asking for advice i just wanted to know there views.

I just want to be as clued up as i can be, god knows there hours ive spent on differnet sites looking up differnent things, learing stuff i dont think other people even know!

Clare bear im sorry if me asking this offended you in anyway.

[melanie]

thats a good question! you have me worried now! lol
i was kinda just hoping it would come naturally without uncomfortablness{is that a word?!}
i havent got a clue what to say,but it will probably be 'ask your dad!'