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clare bear · #1 08-19-2007, 11:38 AM

on the 13th it was my dads 68th birthday, so i suggested a small party. my mum,sister and step dad it was a good idea. so last night we had a small get together at my mums house. my mum and step dad got the food,which was nice of them . so me and my sister just had to prepare it all yesterday. and guess what my sister didnt lift her fat ass off the sofa, so i ended up doing it all.i also cleared the left overs away while she just sat,moaned and smoked. its her b day next month but i tell ya now i aint doing her a party. she could of at least buttered some bread i mean its not rocket science is it. well thats my rant over again.

Charlie_x · #2 08-19-2007, 11:53 AM

thats not fair tho on you is it, its her dad as well so she could of at least lent a hand, obviously if you planned to do it together then thats how it should of been done i would of been just as pissed off

clare bear · #3 08-19-2007, 12:01 PM

the thing is when my dad was 60 i planned to get all his old work mates together and have a big party for him.yea it went ahead but i was totally pusshed out.it was all my idea i done all the planning,invites and running around,but on the night she gave me a bunch of flowers saying thanks i couldnt have done it without you.she made me so mad but i didnt kick off as it was my dads night. i was just so mad last night when she didnt even lift a finger to even help tidy up. i told ant never again. my dad even turned round and thanked her for a lovley night, she didnt even have the heart to say that id done it all not her. selfish springs to mind.

carmen_richards · #4 08-19-2007, 01:29 PM

Sounds like the fiasco at my father in laws party... he had his 60th,... i helped my partner Warren/Phoenix to prepare... and his sister got the hump cos she didnt think about it.. she complained that we set the party up and then refused to come as she was the one who wanted to organise it yet just sat on her but and did nout... when we organised it she got the hump

CoNFuSeD24 · #5 08-19-2007, 05:17 PM

That would make me mad too if my brother and I planned something like that and he just sat on his ass and did nothing. So you have every right to be mad hun...

jennyspug · #6 08-19-2007, 05:48 PM

ya know what? that happened to me on my dads 60th birthday.
me and mum organised a huge party in the local village hall and 40 odd people come some of which he hasnt seen for 20-30 years.
i did 80% of the prep work, my mum paid for the food, bless her, but because my brother suggested the idea to mum he got all the praise and thanks. i spent 4 days running around, organising food, decorations and stuff while 6 months pregs and was told at the end by my mum that i should of done more and if it wasnt for my brother it wouldnt of happened.

oooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh i was angry.
if it wasnt for the fact that my dad had such a good time i would of exploded.

clare bear · #7 08-19-2007, 06:54 PM

i give up on them all now, if they nwant to do a party they can do it all there selves.i get no thanks wot so ever yet i do the running around and everything else. but hey i dont care anymore as long as my dad had a good time thats all that counts. i know my sister is a lazy cow anyway.

jennyspug · #8 08-19-2007, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by clare bear

i give up on them all now, if they nwant to do a party they can do it all there selves.i get no thanks wot so ever yet i do the running around and everything else. but hey i dont care anymore as long as my dad had a good time thats all that counts. i know my sister is a lazy cow anyway.

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emerald-babe31 · #9 08-20-2007, 08:48 PM

aww hun tht wasnt nice of her.. lazy bitch!! sori had to say tht .. makes me mad when ppl just sit there and dont no owt and then they take all the bloody credit for it at times grrr!!

U want me to come over slap her lol

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clare bear · #10 08-20-2007, 10:06 PM

its ok chic she is a lazy bitch, i even done all the tidying up,ant helped me not her. she just does my head in as when i plan things she takes over but then lets me down. when ant and i told the family we were getting married, she played her face as she wanted to be my maid of honor. well i didnt want one so she lost out. she was my witness.i picked her clothes as i knew she would try and out do me. she even moaned about that. but hey who cares i dont, every one tells me she always been the same so she aint gonna change.