friends

[pinky29]

ok ladies the truth please here goes! my so called good friend has had a few problems which i have been with her through & i was with her all through her pregnacy & had her daughter when she went into labour. now i don't know if i'm making something out of nothing but she has peed me off & quite upset me as i feel taken for granted by her! & we have fallen out at the moment. my point is that the following day after she had the baby her man came to mine to pick something up & said that the baby would be staying in hospitol. anyway a few days later i found out she was home & it wasnt until the saterday when we went round on the off chance to see if her man was in to see how she was that i knew she was there. now in my eyes for someone who is suppose to be a good mate i didn't even get a text to let me know that both mum & baby were home & ok! sounds silly but i have been through everything with her so i confronted her about it told her my peace etc which she didn't like told me that i wasn't high on her priority list to text etc! fair enough & said she had too much going on yarda yarda all excuses as it doesn't take much to do a 2 min text me or even get her blokey to do it. anyway she tried turning it around on me & stuff & today we had a barney again with me saying to her the best thing she can do is sort her shite out then when she has let me know for her to do the guilt trip by saying that her shite is a 3 week old baby that is not well. my anwser to that was hell the hell am i supose to know when she hasn't bothered with me. told her i was ending the conversation as i valued our friendship too much & hoiped the baby got better soon. now do you think i was right or wrong!

[clare bear]

hey chic you are so right. you do all you can for ppl then hey they just shit on you. been there done that and wore the t shirt chic. i know how you feel and yea it hurts loads. chic she will get ova it.

[pinky29]

i just feel that if i were in her position & i was & alot worse than her as daz nearly lost the both of us when i had ben that i would have & shall i say did at least get daz to text her to say we were ok. i treat people how i would want to be treated. when i phoned her the 1st time & after i said my peace hshe said "oh i was going to call you tomorrow (valentines day) as you know the annervasry of my brothers death but i said don't bother i wont be here so she said she would call on friday! friday came & no phone call. just upsets me that the more i try to give people & help people they take me for granted! wheather she likes it or not i will always speak my mind because if i didn't i wouldn't be a true friend.

[clare bear]

chic you are to good to ppl. but i know how you feel im going through it all at the mo as you know. its hard and yea it gets you down but hey chic hold your head up, she will want you before you want her.

[pinky29]

oh don't get me wrong i have no quarrels in binning her off if she starts getting asrey with me but i think what anoys me the most is that she thinks she hasn't done anything wrong & she seems so wrapped up in her own little world that no one else matters!

[CoNFuSeD24]

I think you are in the right hun. Some people seem to forget who their real friends are etc etc. I hope it all gets sorted for you hun. *hugggggggs*

[pinky29]

cheers hun it will & if it doesn't then thats her loss

[CoNFuSeD24]

Thats right... it will be her loss to loose such a good friend because she being silly.

[emerald-babe31]

aww hun hugs ***

[shelley]

You're not at all in the wrong, like i said to you on the phone earlier. I think she should be ashamed for the way she's been, it takes no time at all to be polite & do the right thing reagrdless of how many kids etc. It takes 1 min to call to say hi we are all ok hope you are too, she'd manage far longer on the phone to ask another favour!!