loss of identity !!

[shell]

I can remember a time when i was always known as michelle or shell. When i got married i suddenly became stu's wife/ missus/ other half. That was bad enough, but then i had my kids which was fine..... That was until they started playgroup/ nursey/ school. I'm now mainly Lewis's/Alfie's/leah's mum !! l Why does this happen, my hubby still stu not shelle hubby stc or lewis dad etc. Why does this happen lol.

[c.a.cullum]

i kno exactly wot u mean!!!! thats why i'd like to work wen kids are in full time edu... so some people wil kno me just as charley!!!!