Mother In Bloody Law!!! :(:(

[CoNFuSeD24]

I have had it up to my neck with Lee's mum. Since Mileena has been born Lee's mum and sisters hardly come around. They live next door!!! I dont want them around all the time but a bit more then what they do. One of Lee's sisters had her birthday a week after Mileena was born... come over on her birthday then didnt come around for like 4 weeks!!! When they do come around they always have a gob on them and I dont understand why!!! She is 2 months today and not one of those 3 idiots have took a picture with her, his sisters havent even held her!!! Its like there is no Mileena around!!! When they see us they always ask where ya going? Where ya been? Never how is Mileena? And get this... Thursday last week me and my mum thought we would pop into town. Lee was outside with us talking to us. It was a bit windy and sunny so I put a thin pink sheet over her pram as I didnt have a parasol at the time to keep the sun out of her eyes and the wind away from her so she wont catch a cold. Lee's mum come to the door and was like what are they doing Lee? Say something? Why dont you have a say in anything? She was making out as thou I was hurting my baby. I explained what I was doing which I dont bloody have to because I am Mileena's mother and once I had explained about the sun and wind Lee's mum was like she has to get used to things which I totally understand but I kept saying she is 8 weeks old!!! She has only really started seeing things better and I didnt want the sun hurting her eyes. But she kept making out like I was some stranger by Mileena who didnt know what I was doing. Lee started shoutting at her and there was a huge arguement over nothing. She was like I'm her Grandmother I'm her Grandmother!!! I was like you maybe be the grandmother but I am her MOTHER and Lee is her FATHER and we have more of a say then you do!!! Then she started saying she wasnt welcome here... lol she never comes around!!! And when she does come around we busy!!! Well durrrrr... we have a baby!!! I just dont understand what their problem is. I was only trying to protect Mileena's eyes from the sun and make sure she wasnt getting wind in her face to make her cold!!! I just dont understand!!!

[Wee Sharon]

Aww hun thats bloody awful, especially being like that in front of ur mum, a bet she was shocked! But as u say ur the mother and lee is the father and u'se are not in the wrong here, and at the end of the day its her whos missing out on her gorgeous grandaughter (a bit like my mum n dad), but if shes going 2 be like that maybe shes better off stayin away till she grows up, eh!

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[pinky29]

take no notice hun she's not their baby but yours & lee! as for them not bothering just let them get on with it as they will be the ones who miss out on your litle beauty not you.

[Charlie_x]

like everyone else has said hun, its just not you with problems with there inlaws you wait till ive had alfie and there be a new one on here everyday lol! like you say your her mum lees her dad its not her baby it makes no difference if she is babys grandmother at all at the end of the day you do whats best for YOUR child.

[stacy_elise]

god i would be so flaming angry, id b fuming. at the end of the day she cant tell you what to do and as 4 talking to you like that i would wanna smack her 1 lol. not gud role model like
like every1 else has sed tho take no notice if she dont bother any other time why now. x

[CoNFuSeD24]

Lee was close to smacking her one. lol He should of done but then again it wouldnt of been very nice. But I was and still am in total shock over it. My mum said she shouldnt of said anything like that to someone who has just become a mum because of depression and all that. i kinda laughed at her but relised she was right. Never in a million years would I have thought someone else espically Lee's mum to think something like that of me. I'l speak to them and be polit but I dont have any respect for them at all and I aint making the effot. Its not the first time they have a go at me either. Seems to be when ever we happy and getting on with things bang... a bomb goes off next door. lol They can rott in hell.

[stacy_elise]

its good that u know that you are both better than her. she isnt exactly bein a perfect greandmother shouting in front of the baby, if she can be like this now god only knows what she can be like when mileena is old enough to understand whats going on and she will soon sense the tension.

easier 2 jus block her out. b polite 4 the sake of lee and mileena but nothing saying you have to like her lol. x

[Charlie_x]

Have you and lee thought about moving at all when we moved back to birmingham i told ron that i dont mind but i just dont want to be anywhere to close to his parents, lol

[CoNFuSeD24]

lol Your all so right!!! Thanks all for listening... well reading. hehe And ya comments too. We have been talking about moving... back home to Australia. We have spoken about it alot... even before this happened but now this happened I am more determined to go!!! lol I think that should be far enough... what ya think? lol My mum and dad have said if we want to go back to let them know so they can build an upstairs part for us as their house is small for all of us. There would be 9 people in one house. There would be my mum, dad, brother, his girlfriend and 2 kids and then Lee, Mileena and I. lol So they would have to deffo sort something out which is lovely for them to do and totally unexpected. So its just saving saving saving!!! hehe

[Charlie_x]

ooo very nice that would **** her up a bit then wouldnt it haha lol your parents must have a big house and mileena would love it more than england when she grows up more opputinites for her