my hubby

emmal20 · #1 06-26-2008, 05:29 PM

in the quran it states that men and women should lower there gaze

well one day a girl slim big boob walked passed and his eyes glued and i shouted wiv anger in the middle of the street lower your gaze u idiot. how come i have to lower my eyes and he didnt he was so so angry at me wen i got home. i just wanted to slap him him for beeing such a bastard

well although he waas angry at me he stopped looking up for a while lol

happyhappylady · #2 06-26-2008, 08:28 PM

you poor lady, how horrible for you. i used to go mad when my ex eyed up other girls (tho he always denied it). loads of women complain about their blokes looking at other girls. Maybe we should start gawping at other men's muscles, bums and crotches and see how they like it! Am glad to say my new bloke doesn't do it - but if he did too many times I would leave him - I'm worth more than that.

emmal20 · #3 07-03-2008, 03:44 PM

he doesnt do it any more lol cos he got so embarraced lol but ur a strong lady i can c that u on ur partner are happy im happy for u both n ur ryt we are worthit

fi-n-jess · #4 07-03-2008, 09:55 PM

what an idiot! men dont think above their pants do they!!!

emmal20 · #5 07-03-2008, 10:55 PM

lol yer ryt

happyhappylady · #6 07-04-2008, 08:16 AM

am stronger now cos I was in an abusive relationship for 16 years and I put up with so much rubbish, I will never let anyone treat me like that again and my new partner won't get away with any of what my hubby did.

mumofmonsters · #7 07-04-2008, 08:26 PM

Does your head in doesnt it, but my hubby doesnt do it now cos he spends more time seeing if anyone looking at me lol. Get dolled up and if all the blokes looking at you, he will spend most of his time making sure no one can look at you without getting the evil eye from him!

emmal20 · #8 07-06-2008, 05:07 PM

lol ha ha thats gud i necer thought oF that

melanie · #9 07-07-2008, 08:13 AM

my other half does it sometimes,but i couldnt care less.i think its just natural.i mean when i walk past a handsom guy,i do think,gosh hes not half bad...and then i forget all about it.whats the big deal?it would be different if i was out chatting them up or what not. so when my guy looks at someone im not to bothered,and i dont feel jelouse,for me its just nature{as long as he doesnt start flirting,im fine}lol!

mumofmonsters · #10 07-08-2008, 07:43 PM

Not suprised your not jealous, you look stunning in that new photo youve got. It is hard not to be bothered though, when you have a fat day or your hair looks like it belongs to someone else. Ive always been self consious so I always think that if my hubby is looking around he is looking for something better, sad eh? But hes a good bloke so he doesnt look really, I just feel old and then accuse him when he was actually looking at a car