so called family.

[clare bear]

well as most of you know ant lost his dad in jan, well since jan none of his family have had anything to do with him. well today hes 34 and hes not even had a single card fron his family. not even his mum has sent him one. i really feel for him as its his 1st b day without his dad and none of them have even bothered. ive said thats it now they have proved that they dont want to know him so all the sendin of the cards from us now stops. its about time ant started to stand up to them and play them at there own game. not even his bro who he was close to has bothered, the thing thats really hurt is that his bro hasnt even sent him an uncle card from the kids.

[♥ Kerry ♥]

hey I kinda know how u both feel. no one has died but im from manchester and moved up to newcastle 3 yrs a go. since then i havent had one birthday card off any of my family and i even send them one for xmas etc i get upset as it proves how much i care but how much they dont..

its sad to be honest and u are doing the right thing by not sending them cards... i havent stopped though, guess i have more of a heart than them still. my bf says he doesnt know why i bother as they dont bother with me...

just try not to let it get you down as they have proven what kind of ppl they are and u dont need stuff like that getting you down x

[pretty-thingsboutique]

Oh that is awful
I just cannot understand how family can be like that.
I hope they come to their senses soon ***

[fi-n-jess]

thats awful, death in the family should bring you all together not seperate you. at leastb you have each other. from all of us.

[emmal20]

awww thats awfull huh, wot they got against hime u always tell us how kind he is huh they dnt know what they r missing i hope the family comes to their sences

[clare bear]

ant is now talking to his mum and thats where it stops. he will never speak to any of the others again.