so called friends

clare bear · #1 11-18-2007, 10:53 AM

i am just so annoyed i have a freind who i went to school with, shes never taken care of herself,health wise. shes now been told shes having a baby. she dont know who the father is as she is having an affair and wont end it. she dont want the baby she stopped her pill just to get pregnant,so she could say to ppl look ive done it you cant. the thing is she keeps going on about the baby.shes drinking loads every day. she keeps drumming it in to my head that she can do it and i cant. the thing is i know i would make a good mum,i know i would care for my baby,it wouldnt be treated as a trophy.and at least i only sleep with one man so my babys dad would be ant. it just gets me so mad the way ppl go around flaunting the fact they are pregnant,even thought they dont want the child. its ppl like me who get all the shit thrown in our faces. its not my fault i cant have a baby at the end of the day. god i feel like screaming,ppl like that get me so mad, a child is for life not just a trophy.

shelley · #2 11-18-2007, 03:36 PM

Oh hun, what a cow your friend sounds. I hate people like that, when will some people realise thata baby isn't a trpohy to be shown off they are hard work & don't stay babies for long!! There is no doubt at all how good a mum you'd make clare &i think you're a fantastic strong lady xx

clare bear · #3 11-18-2007, 03:55 PM

cheers chic.it just does my head in so much. i see so many girls/ladies walking around pushing prams/buggies, most of them are below the age of 18.then within the next few months they have a belly again. it just dont work like that. get a stable relationship first, dont just sleep with anyone to get pregnant. that child didnt ask to be brought up in a world like that. god i could go on for ever.

CoNFuSeD24 · #4 11-20-2007, 01:11 PM

I know what you mean. Some people have sex get pregnant and the shit... it all sets in. They dont want the baby but they having it anyways and throwing it in peoples faces who cant have childern. Try not to work yourself up too much about it hun. *hugggggggs*