anniversary

[clare bear]

it will be the 2nd anniversary of ants (my hubby) uncles passing on thurs.he was a lovley man and yet another that didnt deserve to be taken from us. ant took it hard, as expected. his uncle passed from cancer, he went in to remission for 2 years and was really well. then felt ill went to the docs and it had came back only this time there was no stopping it.the same time his uncle found out it was back again his wife found a lump in her breast. and hey ya youve guessed it,it was also cancer. so the both of them had to stay strong for each other. his wife done ok and stayed strong all through the hard times.shes now back to normal working again. i just thought id share this with you all as it makes me feel good about myself. i know this will sound silly but it malkes me feel as if hes still here and im telling you all what a good man he was.

miss you loads uncle elijah ******x

[CoNFuSeD24]

Aww hun sorry to hear. *huggggggggggggggggs*

[clare bear]

well today went betta than i thought really. ant wanted to stay in today but i decided i didnt want him to sit and look back at the past.we ended up going out shopping.ant then cleaned the car. it really took his mind off today.yea hes been a bit quiet but hey i guess thats only normal.

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

sorry to hear about your loss hun sending a big (cuddle)

[clare bear]

cheers chic. tar for the hug i needed it. the day went a lot better than i really thought.i just find it so hard as ant really dont know how to cope with death to well. also ant has bad depression,hes not doing to bad at the mo, as he sees a psychotherapist every wed. so if you know what i mean at a time like annis of deaths i dont know what to say or do for the best.

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

it is really hard, and you never know what to say. I am sure he will be fine xx

[clare bear]

he will get there slowly im sure just take a while.

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

yep it will take time, but he will get there xx