Anniversary

Today is the anniversary of my sister's death. She died of cervical cancer at the age of 32, 11 years ago today.

[pinkydinkydo]

debs hope your ok hun thinking of you!!!!!

Thanks Pink - think you probably know better than most how I'm feeling today. ***

[pinkydinkydo]

yeah its not nice & you will never get over it & do you know i was sat in my bro back garden talkin to my sister in law & a single wjite feather came down infront of us & we were talking about my brother!!!! at the time!!! where ever your sister is i guess shes looking over you laughing her head off at you with all you wise cracks & i bet she sends you a white feather one day to show how much she loved you!!!! i awlway say everynight when i go to bed " goodnight andy always in my heart forever in my dreams!!!"

I know she's around me, just sometimes doesn't give you much comfort. That's lovely, a white feather from your brother, and I too talk to her a lot (I'm sure people must think I'm more crazy than normal on those days!) I was just always on the understanding that "Time is a great healer" but I'm sorry I think that's a bit crap. It just makes the time without seeing or speaking to her gets longer and longer. I don't feel any better after 11 years than I did the day she died.
Still, chin up, tomorrow's another day!

[pinkydinkydo]

the pain & hurt will never go away & only you will know when you when feel ready to accept the death of a loved one!! i still hate it when valentines approches as everyone is getting loved up or geared up to it where we are getting geared up to visting his grave & looking after his children!! but is that old saying & sometimes i hate it that life goes on...have a good cry love you will feel a whole lot better!!

I think I will! Cheers Pink, luv ya!!!

[Debbielou]

Aw, Bless you both. You brought tears to my eyes. Chin up Debi, I'm thinking of you.

[ruth]

sorry to hear that.

Thanks girls!