dying................................

[clare bear]

i know this post is in the wrong place but i didnt know where to put it. well as u all know my friend is ill. she has huntintons career. shes 33, we lost contact 4 24 years . i was totally guttted when we met up and i realised she was ill. well i spoke to her cousin 2 day she said carol has been given 6 months to live. its so shocking as i thought she would be around for longer. its just so upsetting to be told she has done a funeral plan,but i suppose it happens hey. sorry to keep going on but im just so shocked i can not believe it.

[pinkydinkydo]

ah clare we are all here for you hun keep strong sweet & remember what i have said to you in the past xxx

[Debbielou]

We are all here for you, it must be so terrible for you.

[shell]

We're all her for you hun. I've chatted to you already about it hun. Remeber to remember what you have now & have had in the past & don't dwell on the future too much. Hope that makes sense

[clare bear]

cheers ladies its so nice to know ppl understand how i feel. reading your replys has really made me realise that ive got to enjoy my friendship with carol while we have the chance. lol

[becky]

hope you are ok clare!! so sorry to read your post!!


xx

[nutty tart]

u know that u can always pop round 4 a can (diet coke) and a chat as ive been through this with Grandad all i can remember r the good times when im feeling down hes always around kicking my bhind and telling me 2 b stronger just keep remembering the good times and not what the might ave beens and the what fs no1 can change them so dont worry what people think or do if u need 2 cry 4 her then do it if u want 2 light a candle then do it i did and im laughing now with him and my happy thoughts of us 2gether.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx x

[clare bear]

i suppose im finding it hard coz we lost touch for so long. then when we meet up again it was at a funeral of all places. i went to carols mums grave yesterday as carol wants to be with her mum and she wants me to look after them.it was so strange standing there thinking carol will be here soon omg wot a thought.

[lukesmum22]

I'm so sorry to hear that hun. It most be so hard 4 u.
Just treasure the time that you have got with your friend now, and try and rember all the happy times.
I went through the same sort of thing with my Nanna so if you ever need to talk i'm herex

[LMChatterbox]

omg babe im so sorry. im sure she will find peace with her mum and feel safe in the knowledge that such a wonderful caring person was looking after them. hugs and best wishes being sent your way. need to chat im here.