iam so sorry to hear of your loss. My grandad died of Cancer 4 years ago, my nan & I cared for him to see someone suffer so much is heart breaking. When he died both my nan & myself felt lost as we suddenly had loads of free time , worse then that was the feeling of could we have done more. We wre glad to see him finally in peace, as heartless as that may sound as his poor body could take no more. He died on my 1st wedding anniversary & 5 weeks later i gave birth to my youngest son, and he has so many of his charecteristics its uncanny. The main thing is, as hard as it is to bear your nan is now in a better place as one deserves to suffer the way cancer patients do. It is early days yet for you all, and time is a great healer in time you'll realise it was a blessing, its all just a bit raw at the minute. I sincerely hope that you r all ok & i'm sure your dad will be fine just give him time & plenty support, theres not much more that you can do. I found comfort in all the good memories & times that we shared, i hope that you & your family can do the same.
Take care xx
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? me and my mum have been taken most of it and sortin thro it there is no way I can see it bein thrown out no harm to my dad... today he is more down cos he has time to reflect on his mums death I feel for him I really do 
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