the loss of my nan

[clare bear]

i lost my nan in 2001,she was my life.the last words she ever said 2 me was"im so proud of u,u look beautiful"that was on my wedding day in 2000.Still 2 day i find it so hard 2 come 2 terms with it,people say it does get eaiser, but i dont think it does! the only thing that helps, is i now my nan is with my grandad and ill now they will both b happy.

[sars]

hi i lost my mum in 2003 i still remember the lasts words my mum said to me i love u and i see u tues, tuesday never came . I do have good days and bad sometimes its hard when you see people with there mums. I thought my mum would live forever. With mohers day round the corner it dont help thats all i see is cards everywhere

[clare bear]

Originally Posted by sars

hi i lost my mum in 2003 i still remember the lasts words my mum said to me i love u and i see u tues, tuesday never came . I do have good days and bad sometimes its hard when you see people with there mums. I thought my mum would live forever. With mohers day round the corner it dont help thats all i see is cards everywhere

i know its hard hun,but u need 2 know ur mum wouldnt want u 2 get upset,i hate going past my nans old house,and remembering where we used 2 sit in the sun and chat. keep ur chin up hun

[shell]

Originally Posted by clare bear

i lost my nan in 2001,she was my life.the last words she ever said 2 me was"im so proud of u,u look beautiful"that was on my wedding day in 2000.Still 2 day i find it so hard 2 come 2 terms with it,people say it does get eaiser, but i dont think it does! the only thing that helps, is i now my nan is with my grandad and ill now they will both b happy.

I lost my grandad in 2001 after a battle with cancer. I was really close to him & cared for him with my nan. The three of us went through alot. There isn't a day that i don't think of him. I find comfort in our good times & the way i look at it is people live with us for as long as they are in our thoughts. My eldest son was only 18 months when he died & my other 2 never met him. They know about him & that he lives in heaven, they say heaven is high in the sky. They say that he lives in heaven but at night he stays in the moon to look over us while we sleep. As soon as the moon is visible they say goodnight , sweet dreams & love you to Grandad Jim. Life does go on unfortunately its just never the same. I hope things get easier for you, take care of yourself

[c.a.cullum]

Originally Posted by shell

I lost my grandad in 2001 after a battle with cancer. I was really close to him & cared for him with my nan. The three of us went through alot. There isn't a day that i don't think of him. I find comfort in our good times & the way i look at it is people live with us for as long as they are in our thoughts. My eldest son was only 18 months when he died & my other 2 never met him. They know about him & that he lives in heaven, they say heaven is high in the sky. They say that he lives in heaven but at night he stays in the moon to look over us while we sleep. As soon as the moon is visible they say goodnight , sweet dreams & love you to Grandad Jim. Life does go on unfortunately its just never the same. I hope things get easier for you, take care of yourself

thats really nice shell... its good that ur children has something like that to relate to!!! it can be hard wen trying to explain to a child about the loss of someone but i think u have done it really well!!