Lost a friend

[rara]

My friend died last week (42 years old). It was his funeral today. We found out that he died of Sudden Adult Death Syndrome (SADS). This is the same as sudden infant death syndrome. We all thought it was a hearth attack but the post mortem revealed otherwise. He was a perfectly health man who just keeled over at his morning coffee at work...........instant. After the funeral I spoke to his wife 'to be', and she is wreck. Im feeling really low today, its frightening, you just dont know when your time is up. I never used to think about stuff like this before I had my daughter, but now I worry about it all the time............what would she do without me etc.? ,

[pinkydinkydo]

oh hun so sorry to hear this there is no words that can ease the pain of someone's death it's a very hard thing to come to terms with all i can say is we are all here for you & to keep on looking after his wife & making sure is keeps well. all my pinky hugs coming your way

[becky]

ohhh thats dreadfull news!! sorry hun. i also worry all the time. if i get a sudden chest pain. i wont sleep incase i neve wake up again. i thought i was dieing a little while back, as i had constand headache, and pains, and was shivering all the time. i still havent got it checked out, but its getn better! its scary to think of when your going to die, whats more scary tho is the thought of " how your going to die"

hope your ok hunni. xx

[rara]

thanks you guys for your sympathy. im feeling a bit better today. i was away with the fairies yesterday and couldnt think straight.

[pinkydinkydo]

well glad your feeling a bit better chick chin up hun onwards & upwards!!

I'm really sorry to hear about the death of your friend. Like Pink said, here if you need us! ***