my father in law.

clare bear · #1 01-31-2008, 08:00 PM

well i dont know where to start but ill try my best. on wed morn ant had a phone call from his youngest bro asking ant to go to his house quick it was there dad. well when we got there jay (ants bro) was pumping ants dads chest.ant went to help him they both tried so hard but it was to late. jim (my father in law) had taken himself off to the toilet and passed away. its a day and a sight i will always remember, were just so numb at the mo its unreal. when the paramedics told us they were sorry it was like a dream. ive got to be so strong for ant but its so hard. where do i start ? what do i say ?

luv ya loads jim. xxxxxxx
godbless xxxxx

shelley · #2 02-01-2008, 08:14 AM

Sorry to hear that clare, i bet you're all in shock. You just need to be there for Ant & listen to him when ever he's ready to talk. You'll find the biggest comfort will be remember good times looking through pics etc, Stu's family found it helped them alot to get through the first few days.

pinky29 · #3 02-01-2008, 08:16 AM

sorry to hear this clare their is nothing you can really say to ant but just be there for him & listen when he wants to talk.

rara · #4 02-01-2008, 07:25 PM

So sorry to hear your sad news Clare. Thinking of you. xx

clare bear · #5 02-01-2008, 09:27 PM

thanks ladies. its gonna be hard to even say goodbye. but im gonna be as strong as i can for ant. tar again ladies. lol xxxxx

pinky29 · #6 02-02-2008, 07:46 AM

thats all you can be hun is strong & you are a strong lady!

clare bear · #7 02-04-2008, 05:52 PM

i know this sounds stupid the way im gonna put it,but i dont know how else to say it. today we got the date to say goodbye to ants dad. its feb the 14 th. not a day to be saying goodbye to your husband hey. i feel so much for ants mum.

pinky29 · #8 02-04-2008, 07:23 PM

know how you feel hun my brother committes sucide that day great day hey! good luck will be thinking of you

pinky29 · #9 02-04-2008, 07:24 PM

ooop spelling poo ment commited suicide not commites!

clare bear · #10 02-04-2008, 08:00 PM

its not a nice day but hey keep ya chin up chic ill be thinking about ya.

its like i just said to ants mum its gonna be such a special day and she agreed that its a nice day to have to say goodbye.