Some advice please?

[Wee Sharon]

So, ok me and my partner Tommy have always talked about having another child and I was kinda hopin 2 hav my coil taken out next year and see wat happens because Naomi goes 2 school next year and Wee Tommy goes 2 nursery next year, but now Tommy is saying he doesnt want anymore at all!! I'm really quite disappointed in this(although I am thankful for the 2 great kids I already hav), and dont knw wat 2 do! Any advice is welcome, tho I dont think he will change his mind!!

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[BettyBoo]

aww hun im kinda in the same situation as i would love another but jamie doesnt.. im so broody its unreal... but as we already have 3 kids we cant possible afford 4
maybe u could come to some sort of compromise..or just keep banging on.. he might eventually give in n say yes! lol

[pinky29]

i think you both need to sit down & out your cards on the table with each other & tell him why & how your feeling then maybe see what comes from that hope you get the answers you want hun x

[Wee Sharon]

I do try n talk 2 him but hes been pretty distant at the moment!! Av got a feeling hes having problems at work and being a guy, doesnt talk 2 me about it!! When i ask wats wrong he just says "nuthing" or "why do u always hav 2 ask that" But am just worried!! Men eh, if only theyd stop trying 2 be so manly all the time n just open up!!

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[melanie]

im not to sure what to tell u,but i just hope it works out for u in the end.***

[louisel]

my advice is that everything happens for reason maybe he feels its just not the right thing to do right now, but ur coil comes next year, next year is along time and he might come around to idea

[krazykezz]

im not sure what to say to this one except why has he changed his mind all of a sudden? seems a bit strange. but hey he probably doesnt want to be woken in the night by a screaming baby, thats blokes for u lol

[♥ Kerry ♥]

well hun if he doesnt want another one then i guess theres nothing u can do.. just wait to see if he changes his mind xx