Any Advice?

[Debs89]

Well have been tryin for about 8 months now, with logan i literallly fell pregnant right away, came off pill begining of march n by 1st week in may was pregnant. But this time nothin happenin n i havent used any contraception at all. sad thing is in march i went to doctor , was feeling dizzy n sick n he said i was pregnant n gave me folic acid, anyhow 3 days later period came n doctor shirked responsability n kinda said " oh well mayb u not" which was devastating as i told partner n we were excited about the baby, he told me 2 stay on the folic acid n i took it faithfully but still nothin. Do any of the storys work? iv heard several. i.e conception best if u do it in morning. i rarely drink , dont smoke or do drugs n partner the same (he smokes tho). I jus feel it really unfair considerin all those nasty ppl in world can fall pregnant straight away even when they dont want kids, n i dont mean 2 sound bitter but a friend of mine fell pregnant same time as i was with logan , she had an abortion ( which i feel is so wrong) then fell pregnant last year, cue abortion2 n now she due in october but happy about this one, while am happy for her i feel bit sick she had no probs and she did that awful thing wen we would never dream of abortion n cant fall pregnant again, wheres the justice Anyhow sorry for the long rant, had 2 get it all out , any advice or tips much appreciated ***xx

[Leahsophiesmum]

Hey hun,i know haow u feel and its awful when u want it sooo much..I was prettty much the same as u wih Sophie it took us 2 and half months to concieve her,whereas its taken us just over 6 months this time..and its really hard wen ur hoping every month u wont get ur period then it comes along! ive no real tips as such hun just to keep trying really..the thing abou it is that there are lots of people who don fall pregnant straight away,actually most women i know have been tryin for up to 3 years before they fell pregnant and a good few of threm have 3 plus kids..i dont really know anyone who has fallen pregnant immediately..I really hope it happens soon for u hun,keep my fingers crossed for u hun x x xx

[Debs89]

Thanx, congrats on the baby btw. its so hard because ppl say the more u want it the less likely it is 2 happen bt wen somethin so important it occupys your mind. Its ironic that wen u dont wanna fall pregnant n take precausions u assume wen u dont take them ul fall. Think partner was worried at one point i only wanted to do anythin wen there was a chance id get pregnant not simply because i wanted to or enjoyed it n a guess part o me was thinkin it. xx

[Leahsophiesmum]

Thanx hun x x Ye i know thats it,i tink its near impossible to not think about it,because i always did after we had sex,id tink to myself i wonder am i? and it is really hard wen u just want it so much..have my fingers crossed for u hun x x

[Debs89]

Thanx, keep havin dreams about bein pregnant, did the legs in the air thing a few times lol partner thought a had lost the plot. keep feelin outta breath for no reason for past 2-3 weeks so there that niggle but a test said no 2 week ago. am due 27th so wel c , it helps bein able 2 chat about it so thanx xx

[Leahsophiesmum]

lol,i did the legs thing too,hough i tryed to do so he wouldnt notice cuz the firstfew times i done i thought i was barking!!lol oh well hope fully some good new at end of month,are ur periods fairly regular hun? x No problem hun anytime u want to chat u know where i am x x

[Debs89]

yeh they seem 2 b every 28 days or around that, was due 28th of april n it was day early n then may was due roughly same n a day early, last few times was gutted n kept cryin for that day but obv u gotta pull it 2getha. xx

[Leahsophiesmum]

ye me too i was really deprssed aswell wen i got them,its hard hun x x

[Debs89]

yep n it worse wen some ppl think u bein silly but it feels like crying for something u lost even tho it was neva there, once i jus decided i was a failure n decided to get al dressed n go out, got legless n felt worse lol now no alcohol isnt the cure xx

[Leahsophiesmum]

Lol,sometimes u just need to le it out x Ye u can get people like thst bu also a lot of people who understand how much it means to u..makes it that bit more bearable x x