Doe's any one think im trying to soon

[mum.of.two.girls]

Hi i have two girls thay are 3 years and 7 months and we are trying for 1 more.My husbands mum said we are to soon and if we did get pregnant it will be to much for us.We want a baby so much but we do not think we are doing the best thing for are child's.Doe's any one think we are trying to soon?

[Sirk]

It's totally up to you and not your MIL's business. If you have the time, energy, & attention for another one, I don't see why not.

Of course if you have doubts, I don't see any harm in waiting either.
I spaced mine 5 years apart and plan on waiting on the next one as well. Though food prices might have changed my mind on a 3rd kid.

[Charlie_x]

i agree with sirk its up to you and not your hubbys mum theres some people who get pregnant within weeks of given birth and do just fine! just do what you both want to do

[Bonnie]

I agree with the other ladies too, the descision is yours and your husbands, not anyone elses.
Most people have said to me once you have 2 kids any that come after doesn't make any real difference. (if you can cope with 2 you can cope with 3/4)
I suppose the other thing is how quick you fall pregnant, a friend of mine descided to try for number 3 and it took her nearly a year to fall pregnant, where as her other 2 babys she concieved straight after coming of the pill.

[CoNFuSeD24]

Its totally up to you and your hubby and no one else. Its none of you husbands mum's business if you want to try for another baby and if your both ready for another then why not?!?

[c.a.cullum]

hey...i have 14months between my older 2...so fell wen 1st born was 6months... and there is 2 and half years between 2nd and 3rd!! its lovely having them so close 2geva!! it is hard work but also easy in other aspects!!.ie.. they entertain each other!! make sure ur body is back to normal after last pregnancy tho.. as i suffer wit lots of probs now coz of the strain on my body!! but if u feel ready...go 4it!! :-)

[krazykezz]

i agree with all the ladies hun... its totally upto u, im sure everyone will agree when i say were all behind u no matter wat u choose x

[♥ Kerry ♥]

if you both feels you are ready then go for it. it doesnt matter what other ppl think its what u think and feel. no one else can tell u that u want one too soon. as i u feel u are ready, then you are xx