How do you stay positive?

mamabear · #1 06-10-2007, 05:28 PM

So how do you women stay positive when everyone around you is either pregnant or just had a baby? Most days I'am fine but sometimes it really gets me down!!! Any ideas?

koala · #2 06-10-2007, 10:42 PM

Hi! the best thing to do would be get your body ready for a baby and keep that in mind, take folic acid and all that awful food thats good for you and baby!!!

koala

yummymummy28 · #3 06-11-2007, 12:17 PM

Just keep telling yourself it will happen and try to relax,its so easy to think about it night and day.Im trying myself and you do have moments when you feel worse than others, good luck to everyone trying...

TearDrops-x · #4 09-03-2007, 12:01 AM

Maybe you could just think to yourself 'Well if it's not this month we can get trying for next month!' I doubt over-worrying and stressing will help lol. But you never know. Then again everyone has their bad days!

clare bear · #5 09-03-2007, 09:09 PM

the worst thing to do is keep worring about it. i feel the same as you chic, i hate seeing pregnant women, i always wish it was me.but its like they say keep thinking about it and it will never happen. i used to get to the stage when i used to say to myself this time is the one, im gonna get pregnant. after 10 years of trying and getting no where,i dont think it anymore. but it still hurts deep down when i see a pregnant woman.

TearDrops-x · #6 09-06-2007, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by clare bear

the worst thing to do is keep worring about it. i feel the same as you chic, i hate seeing pregnant women, i always wish it was me.but its like they say keep thinking about it and it will never happen. i used to get to the stage when i used to say to myself this time is the one, im gonna get pregnant. after 10 years of trying and getting no where,i dont think it anymore. but it still hurts deep down when i see a pregnant woman.

Have you been to the Doctors for a fertility test? I think if you've been actively trying for a year or more it's recommended to see a Doctor just to make sure everything fine.

Are you still trying?

organicrainbow · #7 10-02-2009, 07:43 PM

Have you read "The secret" This helps you to keep positive?

kez71 · #8 11-15-2009, 09:47 PM

i had totally given up trying i was hurt by nothing happen and the month i had said no more was the month i fell pregnant just try and relax and it will happen 4 u hun xx

clare bear · #9 11-22-2009, 10:30 PM

hi teardrops, yea we are under the hospital at the moment, i have pcos, were just playing the waiting game now. xx

Charlie_x · #10 11-23-2009, 10:42 AM

clare its taken you 2 years to reply to that post

lol