Please dont judge me just because...

Charlie_x · #1 08-12-2007, 09:51 AM

Im only 17 and ready to start my family.
I've been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we live together in our own 4 bedroom house and both have good incomes, we've been talking about having a baby for a while and yesterday i had a very long chat with my mum about it and we've decied to go ahead with it, i currently have the implant so obviously i need to have that removed but my mum says i should get my implant removed and let my periods regulate once more then go ahead with trying, i know that i am making the right choice and ive done everything ive wanted to do with my life, im ready to settle down , i finshed school with very good grades and i know my partner is the one i want to marry (we are engaged), this baby would be loved and wanted by both mummy and daddy and planned, my mum has kept everything from when me and sister was babys so wwe wouldnt be short of anything i know young mums get alot of stick for it, but my clocks been clicking for nearly 8 years now and its been sayin i want a baby so i hope maybe you can give me some support and words of wisdom

thanks x

P.s i read an intresting fact the other day that young mums that have daughters tend to have babys at a young age too, my mum was 19 when she has my sister and my sister was 16 when she had her first son then 19 when she had her 2nd, lol.

c.a.cullum · #2 08-12-2007, 02:37 PM

well no1 wil judge u on here hun!! a few of us were young mums oursselves.. i was 18wen i fell 19wen i married and 20 wen i had my 2nd!! and wen i did get married i'd only been wit my hubby 10months!!

u kno how u feel and wot is rite for u so i say go4 it!! if this is ur time to start a family good luck and i hope it all works out well 4u!!

i dont kno much bout the implant so no wisdom there im afraid!! hehe altho i can tell u that the trying is fun!!! lol

keep us updated...oh and by the way welcome to mums room..im charley.. look 4ward to chatting soon!!

Charlie_x · #3 08-12-2007, 04:42 PM

Thank you for the kind words, im called Charlie has well haha thats pretty scary will defnitly keep you updated, we decied im getting my implant out on tuesday

c.a.cullum · #4 08-12-2007, 07:03 PM

just a gr8 name!!!

hope all goes well for u on tuesday!!

carmen_richards · #5 08-12-2007, 08:39 PM

Bear in mind if you have your implant removed it can take 6 months for it to fully wear off... this is one thing they dont tell you at the doctors surgery... but other wise good luck.

koala · #6 08-12-2007, 09:10 PM

6 months!? i got pregnant 2 weeks after i had it out the first time and 3 days after this time...... the implant is great from that point of you everythings back to normal almost instantly!

koala

jennyspug · #7 08-12-2007, 10:51 PM

if your ready girl than thats all it needs.
you and your o.h are the only ones who need to feel ready. dont let any one judge you.
having a baby is a fantastic thing and one that you are both ready to go ahead with.
really the very very best of luck to you both and i hope it doesnt take too long to concieve! (be patient though!!!)

at last some one in the south east!! yey!!

take care hun and keep us all updated xxxx

Charlie_x · #8 08-13-2007, 08:22 AM

thank you so much for your kind words, im having my implant out on tuesday obviously but we were going to wait a month or two to see if my periods settled 1st but i know that the implant can have long effects but hopefuly it wont be to long

CoNFuSeD24 · #9 08-13-2007, 03:04 PM

No one is going to judge you on here... everyone here is really nice and friendly. If anything we are all here to help one another out.

Well hun if you and your fiance are ready to start a family then go for it. Dont let what others think or say get to you. My fiance and I have been try for a baby now for 6 weeks. lol I know it not long but I am dead happy we are. I am 24 and my fiance is 25. I have always said I want to be a young mum. I mean if I could of I would of already of liked to have had a baby. But I am 24 which aint too bad to start having a family. I know this gonna sound stupid but whats the Implant you had? Or maybe thats too much of a personal question to ask.

I hope everything goes really well for you and your fiance and everything goes smoothly.

All the best hun. xxx

jennyspug · #10 08-13-2007, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by x_Metro.Girl_x

thank you so much for your kind words, im having my implant out on tuesday obviously but we were going to wait a month or two to see if my periods settled 1st but i know that the implant can have long effects but hopefuly it wont be to long

best of luck hun, we are all thinking of you xxxxx
please please keep us updated, we are very nosey people!! hehe