sharing TTC worries

[ThatGirl]

Ok so i'm sure we've all had these but i'm worried that i wont be able to conceive or i'll miss carry is this normal to have these worries? I'm also worried i wont be a good mummy . I'm 17 and i'm proud of TTC next cycle is my first PROPER cycle ttc x.

[clare bear]

the thing is chic if you keep worring it will never happen. nobody knows if there gonna be a good or bad mum till it happens, but im sure you will be a good one. hope it all goes well for you. i know what the hopeing is like chic.

[CoNFuSeD24]

Well my fiance and I have been TTC for nearly 9 weeks now and still nothing. I dont really think about not being able to conceive or having a miss carry as things like that can put more stress on the situation. Its ment to be fun TTC and enjoyable. As for being a good mum... I do dbout myself but at the end of the day we all learn for experiance. My friend fell pregnant with her daughter straight away and she was on the pill but with her son it took her 2 years of TTC and she was off the pill. I think when your body is ready it will happen for you and when its ment to be it will be and happen.

[ThatGirl]

thanks for your replies everyone well next month first proper cycle so fingers crossed

[CoNFuSeD24]

Fingers crossed for you hunny. And done forget keep the spice and passion in the TTC. *winks*

[ThatGirl]

i will do

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

good luck and dont worry we all have thoughts like that xx

[ThatGirl]

thanks hun ***

[TearDrops-x]

I'd just try and relax. I'm sure it will happen sooner than you think, I'm a worryer too though. I've always though 'What if I can't have children?' but when I had a smear test done she said I shouldn't worry as internally she thinks everything looks fine.

[ThatGirl]

thanks for your reply sweetie ***