i don't know what

[ThatGirl]

but i have something

feeling so down at the moment and want to cry, i feel like i'll never have a baby, and i'll never be a teen mummy, and that's the one thing i've wanted most my life, two most people it maybe wrong but, going out with mates getting drunk etc, that isn't me, i want a baby, to love and see grow up

[CoNFuSeD24]

Hun it will happen for you... just give it time. Your still only young and have a few years before your 20. Just keep trying and remember to keep the passion, spice and fun in TTC and before ya know it baby number 1 will be on their way to see ya.

[ThatGirl]

thanks hun, made me feel a little better x

you too hunny x

[CoNFuSeD24]

Good hun... give it time. I dont know what else to say other then that... I'm not very good with advice etc. hehe But I try.

[ThatGirl]

aww its ok hunny xxx

[ThatGirl]

aww its ok hunny xxx

[TearDrops-x]

I'm in the same position - Everyone says 'You shouldn't have babies young, go out and enjoy yourself'. I think going out clubbing etc is only fun to a certain extent then it gets repetative and not as much fun as it used to.

Both my friends who have had babies brought them in last week. [One was 3 days old and the other was almost 5 weeks old], and I could imagine what it would be like when I have a baby and that I would enjoy it - Obviously not all the time but it would all be worth it .

Try not to worry, you've only been trying for about a month - you've got tons of time!!

[ThatGirl]

i do indeed, it gets me down too when people say 'YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO HAVE A BABY!'

yes their right but you'd still be too ypung at 27. 37. 47 when are you ever ready to have a baby they are alot of hard work!


my friends baby Boy Logan is due tomorrow x

[clare bear]

hey chic have you ever thought all the stuff going on with the bus driver is getting you down.it sounds as if you dont know wether you are coming or going,if you know what i mean. dont mean to sound like im telling you off or anything but chic you need a stress free few months just to give you that kick start. i have loads of down days i want a baby, im 33 now,ive been trying for 10 years now. i hate to see pregnant women. i think to myself why aint that me or that should be me not her.but hey as long as you are in a good stable relationship it will happen one day you are only young you have loads of time left. even if you dont become a teen mum does that really matter as long as you have a baby.

[ThatGirl]

thanks for the message hun x, i've cut down on the stress alot these past few weeks x