What is goin on wiv me? Please help

[young_mam]

I have a two year old son and a 7week old baby, Im feelin worn out constantly and as if im misserable all the time, I keep thinking have i got pnd? but then try to shrug it off....
Basically whats happening on a day-to-day basis is that one minute I'm fine laughing and carrying on then all of a sudden i'm snapping my partner keeps saying that ive changed since ive had my daughter then will say i need to see some1 but then says hes jokin, could he actually mean it but not want to upset me? TBH I do feel as if ive changed and am feeling physically exaughsted constantly, is it pnd or am i just needing time to adjust to looking after 2 kids? Please point me in the right direction I'm so scared of talking to any1 about it and put a front on that i'm fine

[stacy_elise]

you may jus need time 2 adjust hun, takes some getting used 2 having 2, its hard enough with 1 lol. hope u start picking up soon. x`

[young_mam]

I thought I would have by now when i done that test thing that the health vistor does i was on border line but am feelin worse since then just keep cryin for no apparent reason and feel like im doin everything wrong with the kids i wasnt like this when i had my little boy x x x

[stacy_elise]

maybe go back 2 ure health visitor or doctor, i suffered from pnd and went thru a really bad time. and my doctor put me in touch with a counsellor and its definitely the best thing i ever did. x

[young_mam]

I really don't know what to do in a way i wish my BF would tell me what he thinks coz sumtimes a dont even realise that am bin a b**** until hours later x

[stacy_elise]

lol, yeh im like that sometimes, think men are like that tho. they dont realise u need 2 b told sometimes. x

[young_mam]

the sumtimes need a kik up the backside before the realsie ya actually need them to listen lol. thanks for the advice ive been goin mad wantin to be able to talk to sum1 about how im feelin x

[stacy_elise]

your welcome hun, no worries. x

[young_mam]

[HSlater]

but also remember 7 weeks isnt that long a time for you to get used to having to look after a toddler and a baby and it will be frustrating and hard work and if your partner is making comments like that it wont help! so speak to him and ask him what he really thinks and that you think you arent 100% and would like him to tell you the truth and if he doesnt think anything is wrong not to make those sorts of comments because you will still be hormonal as your body is still trying to get back to the norm!!

HTH xx